1. No, not everyone with autism is good with numbers. Yes, the man with autism in Rainman was, and yes, you hear about how this kid with autism can solve complicated math problems, but not everyone is like that. My son is terrible in math.
2. While some people with autism don't like to be touched, others are fine with it. Tommy is okay with hugs. But you have to know when they are allowed. For example, if he's in the middle of a meltdown, don't touch him. He won't like it. Other people with autism don't like to be touched at all. Some crave touches all the time and benefit from weighted blankets.
3. Not everyone with autism are robotic. Some speak like any other person. Others do sound like mini professors or they can come across as robotic. My son has some speech issues, so sometimes he's tough to understand. When he's going on about a subject he loves, he can sound rather robotic.
4. They aren't all geniuses. Yes, some people with autism have high IQs. But not all of them do. When I tell people my son has autism, I'll get asked, "Oh, is he like super smart?" Yes, he is on the subjects he loves, but his IQ is normal. He also has a great memory. He can talk about things that happened when he was two.
5. There isn't an Autism look. Sorry. When Tommy was small, I would tell people he had autism and I'd get, "Oh, but he doesn't look like it." I'm sorry. What? Are people with autism supposed to be walking around with a giant A on their chests?
Look, just as neurotypical people are different, so are people with Autism. There isn't one type. So don't try to lump them as the same person. Everyone deserves to be treated with respect.
Do you know someone with autism?
Interesting post. Yes there are so many stereotypes and myths out there. My friend's son most likely has autism (he's still young so doctors can't tell for sure yet) and I've been trying to inform myself more about it so I can understand better
ReplyDeleteI mean, it's just like anything with stereotypes. I think those with autism just wanted to be treated with kindness and respect. Thanks for sharing!
ReplyDeleteLove love LOVE this! One of my good friends has autism and I HATE the stigma she faces. It's ridiculous! People assume so many horrible things about here just because she's autistic but she's wonderful, kind, loving, sensitive and so damned smart!
ReplyDeleteWhat an interesting post. It's full of useful information and can be such a good reminder for those who tends to assume things and prejudge without trying to understand the facts. Thanks for sharing this. :)
ReplyDeleteI know somebody that has autism. My niece has autism. Her favorite thing in the world is Civil War and I can tell you she could be a professor at a college studying how much she has with that otherwise she is your normal every day kid that has some social issues. This is a great post.
ReplyDeletecould not agree more with this my friend- i have a friend whose daughter has autism and she is such a sweet pea- my daughter LOVES playing with her and never sees a difference between her and herself. it's what i want her to be as she grows older.
ReplyDeleteThese are great! I love "there isn't an Autism look."
ReplyDeleteThis is awesome info. As I know several kids who have autism and they dont fit all the categories.
ReplyDeleteMy husband is autistic and while when I first met him, and the beginning of our relationship at times was hard, I actually love him EVEN MORE because he has autism. He opens me up to perspectives I would have never thoughts about - and he's LOGICAL and I love logical versus emotion driven thinking.
ReplyDeleteI don't personally know anyone with autism so I don't fully understand it. But I do know that it is similar to having an invisible illness. People often look at me and don't understand that even though I smile or look normal, that I fight daily chronic pain. I get "your too young for that" all the time. I love how you advocate for your son and help spread awareness about it. I think it helps a ton so that people do understand autism better.
ReplyDeleteI know of a few people with children with Autism...Thanks for speaking on this.
ReplyDeleteWhat a great informative piece on your personal experience with autism as a parent. Through important posts like this, more and more of the general public will become familiar with autism and what it means to be autistic. It's wonderful that you shared this story about your son.
ReplyDeleteSo many people seem to think the stereotypes are true. No group of people is their stereotype and I love that you are sharing the reality of children with Autism and the reality of your amazing son!
ReplyDeleteThis is a very important post. So many people don't know the facts and truth about autism. Thanks for spreading the word.
ReplyDeleteI work with kids who have autism and each one is very different from the other. I love that about them!! I have one kid who will stay by my side all the time snd the the other keeps me at a distance. They make every day very interesting.
ReplyDeleteI also hate it when people are stereotyping. We all have our own differences and we have to respect it. It's quite brave of you to post this.
ReplyDeletethis is super informative and helpful post for those who are facing the Autism. thanks for sharing this.
ReplyDeleteI've never met anyone with Autism (that I know of). However, they are just people to me. In my opinion, everyone is different, which is what makes us unique.
ReplyDeleteI don't know someone with autism so this is an enlightenment for me. And I totally agree, everyone deserves to be treated with respect.
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I am thinking that everyone is different, no matter what description they have attached to them.
ReplyDeleteYes to this! I love everything about this. I think we, as a whole, just have to stop with stereotypes in general. We are all individuals and should be treated as such!
ReplyDeleteI love this post, I agree that we need to stop all the stereotypes, thank you for sharing
ReplyDeleteThank you for writing this. I hate that you have had to deal with such rude people! Do they even think before they speak? Everyone is unique. It would be great if more people remembered that!
ReplyDeleteYes you wrote it really well. I agree with you we need to stop all the stereotypes, certain things not comes as it. My daughter has delayed speech I know how it feels. Similarly parents and kids has to go through autism is not the easy.
ReplyDeleteI spent over 12 years teaching, and never came across two students who were the same. But I'm still learning! I'm hopeful that people don't mean to be insensitive with their assumptions and stereotypes, but just don't know better. The more you're willing to share, the better off we all are.
ReplyDeleteI personally am so frustrated with stereotypes. Especially with Autism. No two people are alike.
ReplyDeleteI'm part of a mom group who all had our kids within a few months of each other. Some of the kids have autism, and they are so different from each other. It blows my mind that some people believe everyone with autism is the same.
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ReplyDeleteWhat a great post! I have a nephew with autism and he has his own personality. Thank you for raising awareness about the autism stereotypes.
ReplyDeletethis is a great post - I find that people who are exposed to certain things are often lead to stereotypes, knowledge is power. Thank you for sharing.
ReplyDeleteThank you for sharing! I found this to be super informative as I personally don't know anyone with autism. I hate the fact that there are stereotypes and really wish people could be more understanding!
ReplyDeleteThank you for sharing this! I feel there are so many misunderstandings with autism that it can be a bit frustrating at times. This was extremely informative!
ReplyDeleteI have a few kids with autistic children and all are very different! Each child is their own unique person (autistic or not).
ReplyDeleteYou seem to be a very loving parent and your son must be amazing. It is so nice that you are clearing up all these ridiculous stereotypes.
ReplyDeleteThanks for clearing a lot of this up! People with autism are so lovely and wonderful and you sound like you are doing an awesome job of being his mom!
ReplyDeleteThanks for sharing this! I had no idea about all of these autism facts, great autism awareness!
ReplyDeleteIt annoys me a lot how much wrong information and stereotypes surround autism...Great article, thank you so so much...
ReplyDeleteStereotypes across the board are stupid. They should all stop.
ReplyDeleteI have enjoyed reading about your experiences as a mom. Thank you for sharing this and helping to educate others.
ReplyDeleteThis is valuable information for people who make assumptions. I’m glad to have read it and have a further understanding of autism.
ReplyDeleteI'm glad that you've helped to dispel some of the stereotypes associated with autism. When I was teaching, I had several students with similar IEPs, but each child was unique, just like the neurotypical kids.
ReplyDeleteI get a lot of ignorant remarks regarding my child who has sensory processing disorder. I do a lot of internal eye rolling.
ReplyDeleteInteresting and important things to learn or know about autism. I have friend who have an autism child and he is okay. He can communicate well to others but yes, sometimes they doesn't like to be touch by others.
ReplyDeleteI have two nephews who are on the spectrum and unfortunately, I too have heard many of the stereotypes. However, I do think that parents and family members can help to dispel some of misinformation by politely correcting the information. I know if can be exhausting, but it will help the children in the long run.
ReplyDeleteI think as any variation of normal anything can be different and yet the same. I don't know adults or kids with autism so I find information very important to me. I didn't know that some people with autism really like hugging. It's funny I am neurotypical but I feel the same way as Tommy about being touched, I hate it when people try calm or comfort me with hugging but don't mind a hug in most of the time
ReplyDeleteThanks for sharing these things with us. I think I have a stereotypes too, but know I look at this in a different way.
ReplyDeleteActually many people have a lot of stereotypes about autism may be because they do not have right information or are not ready to understand it. Even I had seen parent of kids with autism who make many wrong assumptions. Your post is basically an eye opener which I had searching for long time to share with people.
ReplyDeleteMy nephew has autism and he is amazing. I love him and all of us dear to him.
ReplyDeleteMy daughter works with kids with autism who are all over the spectrum. Just like the rest of us, each one is an individual and unique. Stereotypes are not good for anyone!
ReplyDeleteI'm glad you're sharing this with everyone. I have three nieces and nephews who are autistic. Each of them are so different too. I also really hate all the stereotypes.
ReplyDeleteMy brother in law is autistic, it's harder when people have stereotypes about what adults with autism *should* be like.
ReplyDeleteI'm so glad you shared this!!! Its so true, I have a lot of friends that have kids with Autism and that are all such wonderful kids!
ReplyDeleteIt's always good to learn something new about autism
ReplyDeleteWell i was not aware about autism before...this was completely new for me..Thanks indeed for sharing this...this is really very informative...
ReplyDeleteYour son is super cute. You are so right with all your info.
ReplyDeleteI think my cousin has autism, undiagnosed because of financial and cultural issues. He is very robotic but loves being around people. My mom told me that he just graduated from the university and love traveling. He is doing extremely well.
ReplyDeleteThanks for this. I learned new things about autism and feel happy that there were some things that I found out so I won't be ignorant of it.
ReplyDeleteSo years ago I totally had no idea. And I had little to no experience with anyone on the spectrum. After having kids and being around kids, I realized how problematic these stereotypes are.
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ReplyDeleteI agree. People can sometimes be so quick to judge and the stereo types they have in their minds are not in tune with reality. We must move to educate others about Autism.
ReplyDeleteThese are great points for people to understand about those on the spectrum. I have two family members on the spectrum, and they are completely different, unique people, just like those not on the spectrum and unique and different.
ReplyDeleteThee problem with stereotypes is that most people do not go beyond stereotypes. They do not make the effort to understand the actual picture.
ReplyDeleteGreat post. I wish I had this to give out to people when I was a principal. You'd not believe how many people I dealt with who believed the stereotypes. Oh wait, you probably would.
ReplyDeleteEveryone is different, for sure. I think that so many people really just have no idea and get something in their head without even thinking about it, unfortunately.
ReplyDeleteI don't know much about autism, but I would like to know more about it.
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