I can hardly believe that my son turned 23 on Sunday. I'll always picture him as a little towheaded boy.
He truly is the best kid. We grew up together since I had him so young. He taught me to use my voice. When I realized he had autism, I knew I couldn't remain quiet & shy. I had to stick up for my son, and stick up I did.
I cannot begin to tell you how terrifying it is to realize something is going on with your child that you cannot easily fix. But I read many books, talked to many doctors, and we figured out a plan to help Tommy thrive.
Throughout everything, he always remained a respectful and kind human being. Teachers would tell me they wish there were more students like Tommy. I raised him to be respectful.
I also raised him to have an imagination. I told him yes, good grades were important, but if there was no imagination, it wasn't worth it.
He has an Associate's Degree in Video Cinematography. Next year he'll have a Bachelor's Degree in Film & Media. He has a beautiful imagination.
One of his favorite spots to eat is Texas Roadhouse, so we went there to celebrate. Many rolls were consumed.
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He doesn't like a lot of icing, so he requested a chocolate bundt cake for his birthday.
He said he enjoyed his birthday. I'm always happy when I can see him.
I hope one day he'll be able to find a job in the movie business. He certainly is talented and driven enough. I always love to see what he creates.
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How is Tommy 23? How is that even possible? I've been reading your blog off and on since he was all tiny and my brain can't wrap around the idea of an adult Tommy. You must be so proud of him!
ReplyDeleteIt sounds like you did a great job bringing him up. Tommy sounds like a great young man with lots of potential. That chocolate bundt cake looks really yummy!!!!!
ReplyDeleteAh it's so lovely reading about how you taught Tommy to be respectful. This is so important. You must be so proud! Time sure does fly by.
ReplyDeleteI can relate to how challenging it can be, but your strength and dedication shine through. Wishing Tommy all the best as he continues to follow his dreams—I have no doubt he’ll go far!
ReplyDeleteWe love bundt cakes! Not sure where you got it, but I've never had a double chocolate one, and that looks delicious!! Happy Birthday Tommy!
ReplyDeleteFor the first time, I am seeing Tommy's childhood pics, and wow, he was so cute! You've truly raised wonderful kids ❤️. Happy 23rd to Tommy!
ReplyDeleteEverything Enchanting ❤️
Wow.... time lies right Mom?! You did a great job and he is doing amazing things and I am so jealous that you guys got to eat al of those yummy rolls at Texas Roadhouse! It is my fave and your son has good taste!
ReplyDeleteIt sound like he had an amazing birthday. And the bunt cake really looks so good.
ReplyDeleteHappy belated birthday to Tommy! And that cake looks so delish
ReplyDeleteWhat inspired you to encourage Tommy’s imagination alongside his academic slope game achievements, and how do you think that balance has shaped who he is today?
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